Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Seven reasons Trieste is awesome if you want to live on the cheap

I've noticed that in Trieste right now everyone seems to be having a difficult time economically. There is just not that much money floating around. What continues to surprise me, however, is how good people are here about it. Let me explain. When I lived in the States, there was NO WAY I could survive if my pay were two months late (and I made a hell of a lot more money than I make now). Here, it happens to me (I'm freelance so that's to be expected) and my husband (who is a regular employee of a company) all the time, and we're not the only ones. It's almost normal. You work your normal hours and payday comes and goes, but the money never makes it to your account. Often there is no explanation or any kind of conversation about it. You just don't get paid. When the money comes in, whenever that is, you probably will. No use in complaining about it (this is not to say that a fair amount of complaining doesn't get done, because it does), you just have to suck it up and wait, just like your company is doing. End of story.

Since Italy has lots of small companies (a company the size of say, Illycaffè, by the way, even though it's an international brand and a pretty big outfit, is considered a medium-sized company and most people here work for companies which are teeny by comparison, and family owned) there just isn't that safety net of money for employers to rely on when things get tough. Getting rid of people is much more difficult than not paying them and waiting for the sun to come out, so that's what happens. Employees who don't get paid hang on with the same optimism of brighter days ahead-- that, and they're terrified of not finding another job, or worse, of getting another job but having no benefits and/or a lousy contract. 

I was already on my way to a simple life before I came here, but living in Italy makes it much easier. Since I spend  a fair amount of time complaining in my blogs, I figure it's high time I praise Italy and my triestino friends for what somehow allows me to live with a sense of security even though I don't have that much money. Here we go. 

1. Healthcare. The inner peace you get from knowing you have it and that it can't get taken away from you goes without saying. It's also very easy to get here. If you're married to an Italian you qualify for it automatically. If you're a foreigner living here with a proper visa, you can also pay into the healthcare fund every year and get coverage (and if I remember correctly it costs less than what it would cost to pay for insurance from abroad, but this must be verified). In the States, the only time I didn't live in constant paranoia about healthcare was when I was covered under my parents' policy and that's because I was too young to know what could have happened if one of them lost their jobs and would have had to pay for, say, a broken arm, out of pocket. Throughout my adult life I was constantly worried about getting laid off or fired from a job and losing that coverage. I no longer carry that burden (Fire me all you want, suckers!!). That being said, I shutter to think about how much it would cost to have a baby without insurance in the States (a thought that never occurred to me before, but now that I'm seven months along, it somehow comes to mind). 

2. Fresh food is cheap. Very delicious, locally grown food (I don't know about packaged food here, because I stay away from it unless you count the roll of pizza dough I use to make homemade pizza a couple times a month) doesn't cost much. It almost always tastes good. After about 150,000 peaches consumed this summer, today I had my first kind of funky one, but that might just mean the season's coming to an end. No fear, I have a two-euro giant watermelon waiting for me on the bottom shelf of the fridge to compensate. If you don't mind cooking stuff up yourself (and if you do, just eat stuff raw for heavens' sakes!), you can really live on a small grocery bill. 

3 and 4. One car is totally doable and banks are meaner. I live in what is condescendingly referred to as "la periferia" as in not downtown or in the fashionable Carso. It's a working-class area with big and horrible-looking apartment buildings (I happen to live in one of them), the Stadium, lots of grocery stores, and a ton of busses which take you downtown and to the train station at the end of the line in 20 minutes or less. You find a lot of nice people here, young families and other folks living the simple life. I happen to love it. What attracted us to this area was the abundance of affordable housing which allowed us to buy a small apartment (with a parking spot in a big garage) on one salary (which is what we were living on at the time). Thanks to the fact that the bank required us to pay 20% down (no money, no mortgage, which is what I meant when I said they were meaner, but it's really just tough love and it was for our own good) and we were able to cover that by cleaning out our piggy banks and putting the money together, our monthly mortgage payment now is about the same as what I paid for rent my first year of university 18 years ago in Milwaukee (not, say Manhattan, and I lived in an apartment roughly the same size). As far as cars, we could probably get by without one, but when I worked in Basovizza in the Carso, it was handy to have one, as it meant 10 minutes instead of an hour-long bus ride (the periferia is not well connected to the Carso) and I often work out of town.

5. Bartering. I thank my lucky stars for portable skills. Having decent English language skills for translations and English lessons has helped me save money on lots of things, both for me and for the non-profit I run: legal services, accounting services, help with phone bills, all kinds of things. This is a culture where professionals help each other out through trading services. It rocks. I also learned Italian and worked on my Portuguese by trading half hour language lessons with friends I met here. Bartering gives you immediate value for your work and there are no taxes to pay (bartering, sadly, does not make taxes go away but it doesn't give you any additional ones, either, so it is still a win-win). My advice to young people starting out in the world: hone your portable skills.

6. There is free stuff to do everywhere: nature (Adriatic sea, Carso, Val Rosandra, public gardens, etc), look at historic stuff (downtown architecture and piazzas, Miramar gardens, free museums, etc), concerts and events (thank you, Comune and cultural associations), and two very kick-ass bike paths means there's plenty to do without breaking out the pocket book. 

7. Ice Cream is cheap if you know where to go. I go to Marco downtown (not far from Piazza Unita, accross the street from the Roman theater, you know, by the Questura). He's still at 1.00 a scoop and his stuff is about the tastiest in Trieste. 

Um. That's about all I can think of for now. But I think that's a pretty good start. 


Sunday, August 1, 2010

I know I know

I promise I will get back to blogging again after the holidays. But can I just say one thing before I go on them tomorrow morning? Today I went to TWO (not one but TWO) malls looking for an open gd grocery store. Apparently even the stores at the MALLS have decided that it's not worth opening in August. But strangely you can enter the parking garage, and you can even enter the automatic doors of the mall and you can even walk around and look at the closed stores, you just can't enter any of them. WHAT IS THAT ALL ABOUT?? You CAN, however, let your kids ride on the coin operated ponies and stuff (great reason to get in your car and go to the mall, no??) but forget about the groceries, baby (an open grocery store on a Sunday in Trieste is about the ONLY justification I can find for entering one of those awful places as far as I'm concerned, and now I don't even have that!).

Ugh. Luckily sweetie did some investigative scooting and found an open grocery store not far from our house (Zazzerone I think it's called-- boycott all others!) and so we got the goods for our trip tomorrow and the rolls of Ringo cookies for my nieces and nephew that my mom is bringing home on the plane with her tomorrow morning (What's there not to love about being the Aunt with the COOKIES?!).

Anyway, I hope you're going on vacation too. Trieste is a lonely place during the first two weeks of August. After ferragosto (August 15), things will liven up again.

So will I.
Have fun!

Monday, May 24, 2010

FUNDRAISER ON FRIDAY! FOOD WINE AND MUSIC!!!

Friday evening is our first ever fundraiser for the Italian American Association in Trieste. Here's the info:

Jazz Concert featuring the Topilow Brothers

(one brother is a Founding Director of the Cleveland Pops, even has a RED CLARINET! The other is a doctor by day, jazz pianist by night). They are playing a free concert here before their REAL concert at the Conservatory later that evening.

Friday, May 28:  6-7:30p.m.
Associazione Italo Americana
Via Roma, 15 Trieste
Donation: 10 euro minimum (feel free to give more!)

Sponsors:
All wine provided by our FAVORITE wine producer in the area:
ZIDARICH and PRINCIPE is donating a big ole Triestino ham (YUM!)!

Please come. Please tell your friends! The Association really needs you.

HELP SAVE OUR HISTORIC LIBRARY!

Monday, May 10, 2010

LET'S MAKE A COOKBOOK!

As I was playing bumper brella on the way to the office this morning (the only way, I have found, to keep the short old ladies' umbrellas out of my eyes while we're crowded on the sidewalk, is to have my own umbrella and to walk defensively), I thought of a cool way to raise money for the Italian American Association in Trieste (not a member? Become one and help save our historic library, and our dignity!!), have an excuse to try out new recipes for the greater good, and do something awesome for the Association's 50th anniversary next year. How does this sound?? 

THE ITALIAN AMERICAN ASSOCIATION 50TH ANNIVERSARY COMMEMORATIVE COOKBOOK? 

It can be full of recipes for the foods we expats miss most: BRUNCH FOOD, as well as indications for Italians to make our yummy cookies and desserts (in cups and grams) and can have anecdotes from the 50 years of the Association (if we make it til then. Again, if you're not a member, pony up!!). As an added extra bonus, we can put in our favorite Triestino recipes too! 

Anybody in? Wanna help? SEND ME YOUR FAVORITE AMERICAN/TRIESTINE RECIPES! Tell me what you wish you knew how to make! 

Live in Trieste? Wanna be INVOLVED??!!  

Shout out number one! I need that Recipe for Eggs Benedict! Laura, you know who you are! And if you live in Trieste and have a good substitution for English Muffins (or a place to find them), let me know that too!

CHOP CHOP! We've got work to do!!! 

If I know my readers, I bet that this little book would be appreciated on both sides of the Pond. Am I right?

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Total Number of Broken Umbrellas...

sticking out of garbage cans and lying abandoned in the street from Piazza Goldoni to Via Roma just now...10.

This is because Triestinis insist on using umbrellas in any kind of rain or (in this case) sleet, even in the presence of the Bora. Coincidentally this is also the reason I have never met a Triestino willing to pay more than five euros for an umbrella.

Why not just put up your hood?

Triestine Cole Slaw

My life has been crazy-o lately, but that's no excuse for not keeping in touch with the blog. I know. Sorry about that. Plus, my last two entries have been complaints. And I should never go to bed with this blog angry (although it's not the blog's fault).

To make up for it, I will tell you the highlight of my day today: Lunch. Now, anyone who knows me can tell you that I love to eat (and drink), so having a meal be the highlight of my day isn't such a rare thing for me. Today's lunch will taste even better because I didn't make it. Sweetie is in charge today. But since it's one of our favorite no-brainer meals, I want to give you the recipe.

It's that Capuzi and Fasoi dish... It's like Triestino cole slaw. And everyone knows that every culture (that I care about) has it's own cole slaw. It's so that we Americans always feel at home, no matter where we are.

Here are the directions.

You need a cabbage, some garlic (we tend to go heavy on the garlic. But that's because we are selfish and don't care what our breath smells like. We also want to live to be 100 and are convinced that this is a good way to achieve that goal), salt, pepper, borlotti beans (if you're in America you can use pinto beans or just about any other kind of bean, navy bean, whatever. We have tried it with white Spanish beans and it has gone well for us. Be creative), olive oil, red wine vinegar (if you have Uncle Boris's homemade vinegar, even better).

Grate that cabbage as thin as you can into a big bowl. Add the raw garlic that you have chopped into itty bitty pieces (Sweetie just put in three cloves. Yikies!), salt and pepper it, set aside.

In a small-ish sauce pan, dump a can or two (again, we love beans and throw in TWO cans) of drained beans  into it, put a decent pour of olive oil in there (to make it juicy), then add a splash of vinegar (I tend to go 1 part vinegar to 4 parts olive oil), you can also add a spoonful of dijon-like mustard (please don't use the day-glow yellow stuff!), heat it up and stir constantly until it bubbles.

Pour the concoction over the raw cabbage and stir it up. Leave it for a couple of hours if you can (you can also eat it right away but it tastes better a while later). Adjust your salt and pepper and VOILA.

It's good fiber! And protein! Mmm. Fills you up, keeps you regular, everything you could ever want in a meal. Today we're going all out though and having this as a side dish (which I guess is how it's meant to be served). We're having hot dogs first, but to be elegant about it, we will skip the buns and call them WURSTEL!

Buon Appetito!

Friday, January 29, 2010

Since When does a LOCAL PHONE CALL cost 50 Cents??

I can't complain about prices in Trieste without at least doing the same in America. That's where I was the last couple of weeks. It is the reason for my silence, my absence on Daily Mile (not so many miles on the feet, you see), and for my expanding waist band. Good thing I found the fat pants right underneath the ones I can no longer zip. Phyoo! 

Here is my Stateside complaint (don't want Racine, Wisconsin to feel left out). 

I have switched to the simplest Nokia Phone on earth, which means that I can talk on the phone in Trieste without my brain overheating after one minute. This is good news. The down side is that it is not Tri Band so I can't use it in America. Pazienza. Sweety became my secretary (I could get used to that!) in the meantime and I decided to use the public phone to tell my mom to come and get me at the gas station that the Wisconsin Coach Lines luxury cruising bus left me at not long after my smooth arrival at Chicago's lovely O'Hare airport. 

It was a local phone call. I know times have changed, but didn't those things used to cost a Quarter? Now it costs two. And the phone doesn't even have the decency to display the price like it used to on the front. 

What's that all about? I mean, who is using public phones anymore and now that I know how much it costs, WHY WOULD THEY? I paid (like an idiot) once and left a message that my mom got the next day. The second time, I called her cell phone. Before doing that, though, I looked around like a damsel in distress until a very kind, but strange man let me use his cell phone because he had unlimited minutes. 

So, here is my USA update. People: still nice. Public phones: Still exist, hose you. 

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Since When is Coffee a Whole Euro??

This week I've gotten charged an entire euro for coffee TWICE (one lousy, one good). When did the price go up? Is this some kind of New Year's thing?? I don't want to sound like my mother: "When cigarettes go up to 70 cents, I'm quitting!!" but a euro for a tiny espresso seems a bit much. Maybe in Trieste we've been spoiled for too long. But I don't think so!

If you're not from here, though, you should know that if you choose to have a coffee standing up in a caffè rather than sitting down at a table, you always pay a fixed price for it, which, up until something like YESTERDAY, was 90 cents! If you sit down, you pay for service (someone bringing it to the table) and the price can go up to 2-4 euros (see, I can't even be sure because I NEVER sit down). So, the Italians, they're not crazy people who prefer standing up to enjoy their coffee, they're just cheap (and I mean that in a good way).

But a 10% increase, SNAP, just like that?? Must be nice to be a cup of coffee!
Bah! I'm making my coffee at home (bah humbug!)...

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Happy Befana!

Did the little old witch come and fill your stocking with coal (if you were bad) or candy (if you were good)? She skipped my house, unfortunately-- my stocking is still hanging there in my living room, empty. Hmmpf! But in Trieste, whether the Befana comes to your house or not, January 6 means it's time to put away all that Christmas stuff (the miniature fake tree with lights that stay on it, the Christmas mugs we seem to receive every year from various family members, the ornaments, etc) and move on with Life. I like this tradition. It gives you a few days after New Years to catch your breath before having to take it all down, pack it up and put it away. That being said, the stuff goes up here much later. I think we waited until about a week before Christmas before we did anything festive to the house. In America I remember everything happening the day after Thanksgiving.

Oh yeah, I have to remember to change my computer's screen saver, too, no more Grinch. Time to go.

Saturday, January 2, 2010

I will not let the crappy weather win!

It has been raining here for what seems like months! And just when I think it's over, it's still there, fine enough to go undetected from the window before venturing out post-New Year's hibernation to soak me, my umbrella, and any unfortunate clothing I happen to be wearing.

My mother-in-law just called to tell me that there's Bora now, too, which she sees as positive: should keep the rain away. But we all know what Bora really means: COLD!

Damn.

But I'm not going to let the weather win. No ma'am. I am going to get my running clothes on WITHOUT looking out the window. I am going to pile on the layers, put on my rain pants, and get out there. And when I finish, I plan on being quite pleased with myself. The big question is whether to go long or short. If I do 4 miles today, then I have to do 13 miles tomorrow. Which will it be?

Ok. If it's rain, I'll do short. If it's Bora I'll do long. And that will just have to be a surprise for when I get outside. I already feel cold and wet. Wish me luck.